In anycase, she hasn't had any significant accidents in months, save one or two little oopses when she was playing with friends or watching a tv show and was too distracted to take time out to pee. lol. You know how it is.
With my first, we went along with the theory that I read about how she's ready when her diaper starts staying dry all night. I remember some frustration on and off, but eventually she got it, and I think she only ever wet her bed maybe twice, and it was months apart. She got up in the night to pee since we first put undies on her overnight.
With my second, she showed interest in the potty first, so we taught her, and she took to it slowly but surely. However... she was always wet in the morning... and when I switched her to undies it didn't stop. Only one morning in a dozen, will she be dry. The only thing that (usually) works is taking her to pee right before bed... and then physically waking her up 2-3hrs later when I'm going to bed, dragging her to the bathroom, lifting her onto the potty... and then telling her "It's ok, you're on the potty, go pee." (lol... and THEN she'll go, once she's reassured that she's on the potty - go figure)... but this is all basically "in her sleep", even though I usually make her walk. I theorize that if I make HER walk to the potty and wipe her own self, and pull up her own pants, and walk herself back to bed, that she'll subconsciously learn to do it by herself. But it's not working. Any time I forget to wake her and take her, or stay up later and don't come soon enough... she pees the bed. She also will often pee the bed/sofa/wherever she fell asleep, if she takes a nap. I think at first, she woke up one or two nights to take herself to the bathroom, but I'm honestly not even sure that's true.
I've also tried giving her only half a cup of juice/drink with dinner at night, and nothing to drink after that.... and somehow she'll still wet the bed even after going pee immediately before tucking in. That doesn't even make sense! lol... *groan*
I'm at wits' end here. I feel like I'm washing sheets every single day. Actually, last week she came into my room sopping wet at about 2am, I changed her sheets, changed her clothes, sat her on the potty for a few min... and put her back to bed... only to have her wake up in the morning soaking wet again. Two pairs of pj's and two sets of sheets (and pillow) in one night. I couldn't believe it. We took pull-ups camping when we went for a week last month... was the only way I could guarantee no wet sleeping bag/smelly tent. I'm really tempted to buy a bag of pullups or goodnights or something for her to use at night, but I'm afraid that's just going backwards and making things worse...???
Any advice, PLEASEEEE!!! I'm going crazy and I don't know how to help her. :(
She's always so disappointed in herself and sad when she has to ask me for new undies. :(